Indiscriminating VIPs have to learn to exercise well people and time management skills, lest they burn themselves out, or fall into the VDP category.
There's a point when we need to know when to stop for a while because we all have a threshold and a certain breaking point.
Which is why we need rejuvenation, encouragement and inspiration/cheering up from the VIPs, instead of leading a life perpetually hounded and drained by selfish (whether consciously or subconsciously) VDPs.